14th May 2008

Giving Credit, Taking Credit

Psychology Today has an interesting article on how we all live on credit, one way or another, and not the financial kind:

Certainly credit can be in the form of tangible reward, whether unexpected bonus, surprise vacation, or plum new assignment. But credit is also highly sought after when it stands alone, in the form of a public e-mail, an open compliment, or—simply, quietly—specific praise from the boss for a great idea or a job superbly executed. You can’t pay your mortgage with that credit, but we still hunger for it. In that universal desire, we are all puppies, and credit is the scratch behind the ears that gets us wagging.

As you rise in a company, the author claims, you may receive less credit (Is this true? I’m thinking I’ve frequently seen the opposite). Ideas tend to rise without a definite source in a company (This is definitely true, though sometimes I think the source has been deliberately removed).

There is also specific advice for those of us who work with credit snatchers, and those of us who simply work with others:

  • Let someone else toot your horn. Credit is worth more when you receive it than it is when you take it.
  • If someone compliments you, ask him sweetly to put it in writing. Then keep an “atta boy” file of these positive statements.
  • If those written comments were not originally forwarded to your manager, pass them on with a quick, humble note. (”Wasn’t this nice of George… “)
  • Take responsibility when things crash. No one wants to give credit to a person who dodges blame.
  • Don’t let the credit snatchers get your goat. Watch your back for the next time and communicate your philosophical spirit to those above you: “I should have made certain that I kept you in the loop about the progress of my work.”
  • 2 Responses to “Giving Credit, Taking Credit”

    1. mskitty Says:

      I’m copying this, this morning, to give to our church treasurer, whose many contributions have been invisible to some of our leadership lately! She doesn’t toot her own horn, but you would have thought her contributions would have spoken for themselves. Unfortunately, even well-meaning leaders overlook people sometimes.

    2. Ms. Theologian Says:

      That’s a nice idea! I think it’s especially important in volunteer organizations (or partial volunteer organizations) to acknowledge credit. Though we all often forget.

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