When an Unaffiliated Informal Fellowship Group Really Worked for Me
Monday March 03rd 2008, 8:49 am
Filed under: religion

So, here is the third in a series of posts of when Unitarian Universalism church-related stuff has worked for me (First post: YRUU; Second post: in college at Smith).

Quite a while, back in college, I transferred to Wesleyan from Smith. Now for some bizarre unknown reason to me, Wesleyan had no official UU student group. This is really odd, because Wesleyan is like the most Unitarian Universalist university in spirit in the country. But no UU group. So this guy and I started a small informal fellowship group that met Sunday nights. We lit some candles, checked in, said some stuff (this is sounding like a date, but there were more people than us), and later had a potluck. 

This little group met throughout my junior year of college and provided one of those opportunities for broadening my perspective beyond the Mineralogy lab, and broadening my sense of Unitarian Universalism beyond church meetings. Yet the experience itself is totally off the record, not counting toward any statistics of UU activity, and as far as I know it, no one who participated was a member of a UU congregation during that time.



3 Comments so far

I am wondering if this is how a lot of campus ministry groups go … and if so - how to “make them count.” Of course, when we talk about making them count, what is the reason for that? Is it just so that the larger group of UUs (or the UUA) can claim that activity? What benefits would the campus groups get out of being “known?” Publicity, more involvement from new students, etc?

How can they be put “on the grid” so to speak without creating more work for them?

Comment by h sofia 03.03.08 @ 12:11 pm

Those sound like good Philocrites questions. I was just on the UUA’s site trying to figure out how to start a fellowship group and what the rules were, but my browser is being a pain in the butt with their google search engine.

I’ve always assumed, and I may be wrong, that it was the goal of fellowships to grow into congregations, and that seems true from this article. But upon reflection, I’m thinking that this sort of small lay group may be exactly the sort of religious meeting that I prefer to standard Sunday church.

Comment by Ms. Theologian 03.03.08 @ 12:53 pm

Which reminds me, expanding Quakerism goes into expanding campus ministry.

There are many Quaker colleges and universities, in the United States and the UK, particularly. But they are often plagued by the same internal divisions that have been to the detriment of all Quakers.

Comment by Comrade Kevin 03.05.08 @ 3:15 pm



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