Archive for April, 2006

01st Apr 2006

"Illegal Workers"

“Speak out, judge righteously, defend the rights of the poor and needy.” (Proverbs 31:9)

In A Day Without a Mexican, we see dramatically what would happen if everyone of Hispanic origin disappeared from California. Although this movie was released two years ago, it is especially timely as Congress evaluates plans for immigration reform.

We often forget that we are all (yes, even the Native Americans) immigrants who came from somewhere else–maybe in our own generation, maybe four generations ago, maybe a hundred generations ago.

I find the term “illegal workers” insulting; they are undocumented, and they’ve done what my great-grandparents did, which was that they used any method possible to create a better life for their themselves and their children. When President Bush says that undocumented workers do the work that Americans won’t, what he really should say is that globalization and rampant unchecked capitalism has created a demand for cheap goods produced at costs that do not reflect a living wage and that our shitty policy is to wink at illegal workers and let them do it for less than they deserve.

You can tell a lot about a country by how the weakest members are treated. And we’re not seeing anything that could be called generous or decent. It’s exploitative. We’re seeing policy by fear and policy by greed.

The Virtual Talmud has also been reflecting on the on immigration reform:

As Jews, we know what it is like to be strangers. Our whole religion is built upon this essential ethical leitmotif: Love the stranger, for you were strangers in the Land of Egypt. We are to make sure the stranger is treated fairly, because we know what it is like not to be. We are our brothers’ and sisters’ keepers, which is why more synagogues should be joining other faith-based organizations to offer food and other aid to the illegal immigrants we see suffering within our midst.

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01st Apr 2006

Ms. Theologian contemplates success (not her own, mind you)

Dear Ms. Theologian…

I have had some long-awaited recent success in my career, as had my husband. We are embarking upon some very exciting changes with nothing but positive outcomes expected. However, I’m suddenly overcome with anxiety and fear, as if all our success is a sham, and we don’t really deserve it. It is having a negative affect on my mood, and straining my relationship with my husband. Do you have any spiritual advice for how to open oneself to success?

I could really use some

Yours,
Anxious in California

Dear Anxious:

It’s always shocking when long-awaited success shows up at the front door dressed up in a bright tuquoise mumu. You don’t know whether to give her a big hug because you’ve been waiting for her for years or to shut the door again because she’s not really what you expected. Either seems equally scary.

Let’s deal with the issue of deservedness first and get that out of the way. You may or may not deserve it. (I’m going to pretend I don’t know that you do. You do.) Regardless we all get things we don’t deserve throughout our lives and have to deal with them the best we can. So it doesn’t really matter if you deserve it. You got it, baby.

So let’s focus on how to seize this success, shall we? Here’s my advice: pretend that you deserve it. Pretend that you can embrace it. Pretend you know what to do with this success. Tell your friends, have a party, buy yourself something you’ve been eyeing. Regardless of how you celebrate, find a time and a space to honor the hard work that you’ve put into getting to this place in your career.

Embracing success may be pretend at first, but if you can fake it temporarily, you brain will catch up to your body. It seems like your brain is just used to it’s normal state of trying to make it and has trouble getting used to the made it.

I’m struck by the fact that suggesting “taking things you may or may not deserve” and “faking it” may not, in fact, be “spiritual advice,” so let me backtrack for a second to two important ideas:

1. Fulfilled work lives are generally governed by higher principles that we think are important. Remind yourself of what those are. Here are some samples (creativity, love, helping others, helping the world–those are ones I like, but here are some more popular ones–money, taking all you can before you die, and screwing others). Rediscover what is truly important to you and connect to it to this success.

2. Anxiety can be managed with drugs, exercise, or meditation. Some of these are easier options than others. I suggest starting a meditation practice or deepening the one that you have. This will quiet that jumpy little monkey mind that gets excited by the big future ahead.

Congratulations and Om,

Ms. Theologian

P.S. If you would like to write to Ms. Theologian, send your problem in an email to ms dot theologian at gmail dot com.

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